Your first message on Telegram can make or break your chances of starting a conversation. Unlike dating apps where mutual matching creates context, Telegram requires stronger opening lines to stand out. This guide shares 50+ proven messages that get responses.

Why Opening Lines Matter on Telegram

Telegram differs from dating apps in key ways:

• No mutual matching: They didn't explicitly show interest first
• Direct messaging: You're reaching out cold
• More skepticism: People are wary of random messages
• Higher standards: Generic messages get ignored instantly

This means your opening line must work harder to capture attention and demonstrate genuine interest.

The Golden Rules of Telegram Opening Lines

Before diving into specific examples, understand these principles:

• Be specific: Reference their profile, bio, or shared interests
• Ask questions: Make it easy for them to respond
• Stay positive: Friendly and upbeat beats clever or edgy
• Keep it brief: 1-2 sentences is ideal
• Show personality: Let your character shine through
• Avoid desperation: Confidence is attractive

Location-Based Opening Lines

If you found them through local groups or location-based tools like Lovitro:

• "Hey! Fellow [City] local here. What's your favorite spot in [neighborhood]?"
• "Hi! Saw you're from [City]. Have you tried [popular local place] yet?"
• "Just moved to [City] - any hidden gems you'd recommend?"
• "Hey! Are you on the [west/east/north/south] side? Looking for good coffee recommendations"
• "Hi! Love finding other people from [City] on here. What brought you to Telegram?"

Interest-Based Opening Lines

Reference shared interests from their bio or group membership:

• "Saw you're into [hobby] - how did you get started with that?"
• "Hey! Another [interest] fan! What got you into it?"
• "Love your bio! I'm also obsessed with [shared interest]"
• "Hi! Saw you mentioned [interest]. Any recommendations for a beginner?"
• "Fellow [hobby] enthusiast here - what's your setup/favorite [relevant thing]?"

Compliment-Based Openers (Use Carefully)

Compliments can work but must be specific and non-creepy:

• "Your bio made me laugh - [specific reference]. Are you always this funny?"
• "Love your profile picture! Is that from [location/event]?"
• "Great taste in [music/books/shows from their bio]! Have you checked out [recommendation]?"
• "Your [pet/hobby/interest] looks amazing! How long have you been doing that?"

Avoid: Generic physical compliments ("you're beautiful") - they're overused and often uncomfortable.

Question-Based Openers

Questions invite responses and show genuine curiosity:

• "Quick question - [City] or [City], which has better [food/nightlife/etc]?"
• "Coffee or tea person? This is very important"
• "What's one thing you're passionate about that most people don't know?"
• "If you could travel anywhere right now, where would you go?"
• "What's the best meal you've had recently?"
• "Beach vacation or mountain adventure?"

Humorous Opening Lines

Humor works if it fits your personality - don't force it:

• "Hi! I promise I'm not a bot (which is exactly what a bot would say...)"
• "Hey! On a scale of 1-10, how weird is it that I'm messaging you out of nowhere?"
• "Hi! I'd start with a pickup line but I value my dignity too much"
• "Hey! Fair warning - I'm terrible at small talk. Want to skip to the interesting stuff?"
• "Hi! Let's assume we've already done the awkward introduction part. How's your day going?"

Group Context Openers

If you're messaging from a shared Telegram group:

• "Hey! Saw your comment in [group name] about [topic] - totally agree"
• "Hi from the [group name]! Couldn't resist saying hi after your [funny/insightful] message"
• "Hey! Fellow [group name] member here. How did you find that group?"
• "Saw you're in [group] too - have you been to any of the meetups?"

Time-Sensitive Openers

Reference current events or time of day:

• "Hey! Enjoying this [weather]? Any plans to take advantage of it?"
• "Hi! How's your weekend going so far?"
• "Hey! Did you see [local event/news]? Thoughts?"
• "Hi! Happy [day of week]! Any exciting plans?"

Direct and Honest Openers

Sometimes straightforward honesty works best:

• "Hi! I know random messages on Telegram are weird, but saw your profile and wanted to say hello"
• "Hey! Full disclosure - I'm terrible at opening lines. How are you?"
• "Hi! New to Telegram dating and not sure how this works, but you seem interesting"
• "Hey! Thought I'd shoot my shot. What's the best way to get to know you?"

What NOT to Say (Common Mistakes)

Too Generic

• "Hey"
• "What's up"
• "How are you"
• "Hi beautiful"

Too Forward

• "Want to meet up?"
• Anything sexual or overly flirtatious
• "Send me a pic"
• "Are you single?"

Too Negative

• "I hate Telegram but..."
• "You probably won't respond but..."
• "I'm not usually good at this..."
• Complaints about dating in general

Too Long

• Paragraphs of introduction
• Your whole life story
• Multiple questions in one message

Follow-Up Strategy

What to do after sending your opening line:

If They Respond

• Reply within a reasonable time (not instantly, not days later)
• Ask follow-up questions about their response
• Share something about yourself to balance the conversation
• Keep the energy matching theirs

If They Don't Respond

• Wait 3-4 days before considering a follow-up
• One follow-up is okay, more is desperate
• Make the follow-up different - not "hey did you see my message?"
• Example follow-up: "Hey! Realized I might've seemed random. Found you through [context] and thought you seemed cool"

Tailoring Messages to Different Platforms

From Groups

Reference the shared group and why you're reaching out specifically.

From Lovitro or Similar Platforms

Mention you saw their profile on the platform - it provides context for your message.

• "Hey! Saw your profile on Lovitro and wanted to say hi"
• "Hi from Lovitro! Loved your bio"

From People Nearby

Be upfront that you found them through the feature.

• "Hey! Saw you on People Nearby - are you in [area] too?"

Advanced Tips

Use Telegram Features

• Send a relevant sticker after your opening line
• Use emojis sparingly to add personality
• Voice messages can work once conversation starts

Timing Matters

• Evening messages (7-10 PM) get higher response rates
• Avoid very late night or early morning
• Weekend afternoons work well

Profile Optimization

Remember, they'll check your profile before responding:

• Good profile picture
• Interesting bio
• Not completely empty profile

Success Metrics

Realistic expectations for Telegram dating:

• 30-40% response rate is excellent (better than dating apps)
• 10-20% conversion to conversation beyond a few messages
• 5-10% leading to actual dates from initial messages

Don't get discouraged - it's a numbers game combined with quality messaging.

Conclusion

The best opening line is one that's genuine, references something specific, and invites a response. Avoid generic messages, be respectful, and show your personality. Remember that Telegram dating rewards effort and authenticity over quantity of messages.

Experiment with different styles to find what works for your personality and audience. Track what gets responses and refine your approach. With practice, you'll develop opening lines that feel natural and consistently start engaging conversations.